The Art of loving

Monday. November.30 .2009.clear

I went on a one on one blind date on friday in Gangnam.
I didn't looking foward to my Mr,Right. But I felt bad I didn't like the guy who I met on a blind date for marrige. I feel burdened by a one on one blind dates. So I'm so depressed these days or Do I feel a little bit down about winter rain? It had been raining steadily all throug the sunday.
Because I am disappointed with him, I broke up with my boyfriend latly. I haven't been dating anyone for two months But I 'm determined to fall in love forever. I found that the art of Loving is difficult .

He who knows noting , loves nothing, He who do noting, understands nothing . He who understands nothing is worthless. (The Art of loving by Eric

 

h . fromm )

The Art of loving by Erich . fromm is by no means mainly a recapitilation. It presents many ideas beyond the previously expressed ones. It wants to show that Love is not a sentiment which indulged in by anyone, regardless of the level of maturity.
It want to convince that all attempts for love are bound to fail , unless he tries most actively to develop his total personality, so as to achieve a productive orientation ;that satisfaction in love cannot be attained without the capacity to love one's neighbor, without true humility,courage,faith ane discipline.

He told that the elements of love are care,resposibility, respect and knowledge.

"If a woman told us that she loves flowers and we saw that She forgot to water them, We would not belive in her ' love' for flower.Love is the actve concern for the life and the growth of that which we love."